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Learn the Secrets to Healthier Stronger Relationships With Paul Baker – Brisbane Relationship Coach

Relationship Issues – No Two are the Same

There is no doubt that relationship issues are as varied as the relationships you know and see in society.

Having said that, the remedies for those issues can often appear quite simple and straight forward. But they are not easy. In other words, they require work. And that work always requires effort!
Relationship counselling can and does do many things, and help many people, but often it runs the risk of getting bogged down in details and the ‘He said, she said’ syndrome.

A counselling environment can help a couple get a different perspective on the relationship. It can help you see the other person’s point of view. But knowing and appreciating your partner’s point is one thing. Doing something constructive about it is quite another. When you engage in couples counselling it is like clearing the site for construction. Coaching is like laying the foundation and building the structure of a home, so to speak. The better the materials, the knowledge and skills you have to build with, the better the end result.
Knowing how to navigate the tricky waters of relationship disputes requires skill, knowledge, and understanding. However, research shows that there is one other major aspect that is required for a successful outcome and that is a plan to work towards. And as you can appreciate, nobody builds a home without a proper plan in place.

“For any marriage or relationship to not only survive but thrive it needs to have a plan.”

In any good plan, there are a number of steps and procedures that must be followed to have a successful outcome.
That’s why Paul has adopted a coaching approach to marriages and committed relationships. After all, creating a great relationship cannot be left to chance.
Paul is passionate about doing his part to stem the tide of divorce in this country. He is motivated to see people recreate a fantastic home and family relationship life. If you are committed to making the necessary changes to your relationship, then Paul is committed to helping you do it.
So whatever the issue might be, from arguments about money to the family budget, from infidelity to a lack of communication, from intimacy issues to unmet expectations, there is a proven way to overcome these obstacles. Whether you are on the brink of separation or divorce or just need to refresh and re-energise your relationship, Paul is here to help you.

Effective Approach to Relationship Coaching

The relationship coaching approach at PBR Counselling and Relationship Coaching is based on years of solid research carried out in the field of marriage and relationships by the John Gottman Institute. John Gottman’s research spans over 35 years of relationship studies and has profoundly helped shaped the relationship counselling and coaching world ever since.

While it is true that psychology can only predict approximately 10% of human behaviour with any accuracy, the inverse is true of relationships. Gottman and associates found that they could predict with high probability (89% thereabouts) whether a marriage would succeed or fail.
Simply by observing couples in a variety of settings, including arguments and having fun, they could tell accurately if the couple was headed to the divorce court or could remain married. We have taken this research and applied it to the coaching environment with great results.

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Relationship Coaching vs Relationship Counselling

A coaching approach not only focuses on understanding and resolving couples’ conflicts, but also extends into the aspects of everyday interactions , communications, and their challenges. It aims to build a couple’s friendship and love by focusing on emotions, building skills to manage conflict, developing new skills to build friendship, and helping the couple to build a system of shared meaning together.

The key building blocks of this effective approach include:
  • Managing patterns of interaction to make them more functional and constructive

  • Repairing trust, intimacy and friendship

  • Building shared meanings

  • Understanding attitudes, experiences and perceptions that each partner brings into shared relationships

  • Building skills and tools for managing conflict and building friendships

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Why Relationship Coaching is Appealing

Coaching has a broad appeal with many people being able to relate to the environment of training and learning. Most recognise that coaching plays a big part in the success of any pursuit. Furthermore, men, in particular, find coaching less intimidating, less threatening and are therefore more likely to engage in the process.

“Couples coaching is a supportive and powerful way for couples to resolve issues, achieve more clarity, improve communication, develop intimacy, and build and grow their relationship. Paul Baker’s approach supports both parties in the relationship and aims to address negative cycles and patterns that regularly lead to arguments, feelings of not being heard, disconnection, dissatisfaction or disempowerment”.
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The key benefits of Couples Coaching:
  • It increases your knowledge about yourself and your partner

  • It helps you understand and describe how you interact

  • It teaches you how to break ineffective patterns and develop better ones

  • It gives you both the confidence and insight into making your relationship work

Start Your Journey With PBR Relationship Coaching

If your partner is reluctant to start couples coaching or relationship counselling you can start alone and then let them know what you’re doing. This will demonstrate that you value the relationship, want to learn new skills and wish to gain clarity by focusing on the issues that matter to you. Your partner can join the process at any stage they feel comfortable doing so.

About Us

Based on Brisbane’s northside, PBR Counselling and Relationship Coaching has helped countless individuals and couples through turbulent periods and on to foster techniques that encourage lasting relationship health.

Together through therapy, we can help you develop the right tools to reduce conflict, open up to each other, and get back to being happy again.

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